Beyond the Psychology of Relationships
Please watch beyond Angus’s moan about the cleanse we are doing. For the record, I did not force him to participate. I feel great and am doing the same thing! There are separate realities for you!
Anyway, this Vlog is to clarify that Angus and I are not sharing about how to improve your relationship by managing your thinking or by changing your state of mind. Our intention is to point to the fullness of who you are that includes both the form of your psychology and the formless essence of your spiritual nature.
It is through looking in the direction of what is universal and unchanging that our psychology shrinks down to a manageable size. We don’t need to fix or change it when we see it is not all of who we are.
Getting perspective is all that is needed. Because when we see the subjective, transient experience that it is, it doesn’t really matter what experience we are having. We can make peace with any experience when we have a deeper reference point in our essence that is unchanging.
From the vantage point of all of who we are, it becomes obvious that there is nothing to fix, do or change about ourselves. With the small glimpse, I experience of this, the freedom is immense! And it becomes so much easier for me to enjoy the form of life whatever shape it takes and engage and be of service more often from a place of wellbeing and okayness.
Angus & Rohini Ross are “the Rewilders”. They love working with couples and helping them to reduce conflict and discord in their relationships by opening them up to their innate vitality and resilience. They work with couples who are struggling and couples who would like to deepen the love and intimacy they already have. They co-facilitate individualized couples intensives that rewild relationships back to their natural state of love. Rohini is the author of Marriage (The Soul-Centered Series Book 1), and they are co-founders of The Soul-Centered Series: Psychology, Spirituality and the Teachings of Sydney Banks. You can also subscribe to Rohini’s weekly blog that includes their weekly Vlog on her website, www.rohiniross.com.