He Said, She Said: Assumptions aren’t Truth

It is easy to make assumptions, but they are often inaccurate -- sometimes in very amusing ways. Angus and I both make wrong assumptions about dogs. Also, I still don't understand Angus' English sense of humor, and take him too seriously even after all these years together.   Angus and Rohini love working with couples and helping them reduce conflict and discord so they can experience more love and harmony in their relationships. They co-facilitate individualized three-day couple's retreats that support the deepening of connection and understanding. We work with couples who are struggling and couples who would like to deepen the love and intimacy...

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He Said, She Said: Annoying Habits

This week’s Vlog is about my annoying habits. Angus talks about some of my habits that he no longer finds annoying because he understands that he feels his thinking and not my behavior. This helped me to get over being stubborn about my behavior. He also fesses up to some OCD quirks of his own.   Angus and Rohini love working with couples and helping them reduce conflict and discord so they can experience more love and harmony in their relationships. They co-facilitate individualized three-day couple's retreats that support the deepening of connection and understanding. We work with couples who are struggling and...

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He Said, She Said: Cultural Differences Don’t Have to Create Drama

Angus accuses Rohini of being a barbarian because of how she holds her fork, and she manages to not stab him with it. That is progress! They discuss how cultural differences are made up, and how it is possible to move beyond them. Love is what matters!   Angus and Rohini love to work with couples and help them reduce conflict and discord so they can experience more love and harmony in their relationships. They co-facilitate individualized three-day couple's retreats that support the deepening of connection and understanding. We work with couples who are struggling and couples who would like to deepen the...

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S2 Womanhood From the Inside-Out with Rohini Ross – Ep6

Hi, I’m Clésia Mendes and welcome to the 2nd Season of Womanhood from the Inside-Out! In this interview series, we’ll be discovering and uncovering the nature of Womanhood from the Inside-Out? Why it's important? When does it show? How can we identify it? And what are the implications of Womanhood from the Inside-Out? You can reach me at https://www.facebook.com/clesia.mendes or http://www.clesiamendes.com/   Today's guest is my dear friend Rohini Ross. Rohini is a psychotherapist, a leadership consultant, a transformative coach and a Huffpost blogger. She facilitates training and personalized programs for individuals, couples, and professionals to help them connect more fully with...

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He Said, She Said: A Simple Life

A very windy Vlog encouraging us all to slow down and take the pressure off ourselves. We can trust in our deeper feelings of love and wisdom to guide us. There is a simplicity in living life this way -- one step at a time -- rather than over complicating things.   Angus and Rohini love to work with couples and help them reduce conflict and discord so they can experience more love and harmony in their relationships. They co-facilitate individualized three-day couple's retreats that support the deepening of connection and understanding. We work with couples who are struggling and couples who would...

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He Said, She Said: Letting Go and Getting Reflective Beats Freaking Out

Angus and I are spending a few days in a northern paradise while we attend the 3P school. I love what Angus shares about how as soon as he stopped focusing on his upset and got more reflective, his mind relaxed, and he got the information he needed. I can certainly relate! When I get caught up in my thoughts of stress and worry it is such a relief to be able to unglue myself and drop into my natural state. I was really moved by his experience of connecting more deeply with his true nature and knowing the intelligence...

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He Said, She Said: Differences Are Not the Problem in Relationships

Angus is nearly ready to walk off the Vlog again because I mention that couples have different preferences related to frequency of sex. I'm not sure why he was so freaked out by this. All I was saying is that differences are often seen as the problem in relationships, and are perceived as the cause of incompatibility, when the real culprit is being caught up in negative thinking.   We all have the capacity to work through differences and find common ground when we are connected with our wellbeing and able to tap into our infinite potential for new thought. When...

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He Said, She Said: Helping People Be Themselves

Angus finds it ludicrous that what we do is help people to be themselves until he realizes it is true. There is so much conditioned thinking that we buy into, we don't realize how much pressure we put on ourselves. It becomes invisible to us, and it is so freeing to break free from the limiting beliefs and just be ourselves. Not only does it feel better, but our performance improves in all areas of life both professionally and personally.   Angus and Rohini love to work with couples and help them reduce conflict and discord so they can experience more love and...

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He Said, She Said: Angus Does His Impersonation of a Bobblehead

Angus thinks he is just a pretty face. He doesn't realize how much value his presence and insights add to the Vlogs. But he does bring a good feeling today even if Rohini bores him.   Angus and Rohini love to work with couples and help them reduce conflict and discord so they can experience more love and harmony in their relationships. They co-facilitate individualized three-day couple's retreats that support the deepening of connection and understanding. We work with couples who are struggling and couples who would like to deepen the love and intimacy they already have. Find out more about Angus and Rohini’s upcoming...

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He Said, She Said: Arguments Aren’t the End of the World

We are not perfect! Sometimes we don't listen to our own sensible advice. The good news is we are resilient and able to get over ourselves. This allows us to rebound from arguments much more quickly than in the past. Ultimately, love prevails even when we do not act our best -- what a relief!   Angus and Rohini love to work with couples and help them reduce conflict and discord so they can experience more love and harmony in their relationships. They co-facilitate individualized three-day couple's retreats that support the deepening of connection and understanding. We work with couples who are struggling and couples...

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