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He Said, She Said: Angus’s Absentmindedness

There is a lot going on in this week's Vlog. We get photo bombed by our eldest daughter. Angus learns to keep his pants on and not check in at seedy motels on Facebook. On a more serious note, I see how my irritation with Angus's absent mindedness is only ever a result of the story in my head and nothing to do with him. Angus recognizes how he can use his feelings as a compass to let him know when it is not a good time to engage in communication with me.   Angus and Rohini are both coaches. They work...

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He Said, She Said: Panic Attacks and Bouncing Back

This week I share my experience getting up close and personal with a panic attack. Angus shares an experience of sheer panic from years ago. It is amazing the power our thoughts have on our physiology as is our innate capacity to bounce back. It is such a relief to know we are designed to stabilize without any effort needed on our part. Seeing this makes it so much easier for me to surrender into what is -- at least more often. Add there is a good lesson on safe sex too!   Angus and Rohini are both coaches. They work with individuals,...

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He Said, She Said: Separate Realities

Angus and I had a brutal encounter with separate realities on our hike. It left both of us feeling shaken. Neither of us did a good job of trying to find common ground with the other person. We were caught up in our position that he was doing something wrong. It gives us pause to reflect on how to navigate difference with compassion and understanding real-time.   Angus and Rohini are both coaches. They work with individuals, leaders and organizations to increase performance and success. They also love working with couples and helping them reduce conflict and discord so they can experience...

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He Said, She Said: The Pressure of Expectations Can be Paralyzing

It is so easy for perfectionism and caring about how we look to get in the way of staying in the game. This week Angus shares how he sees his desire to look good has stopped him from moving forward in the past, and maybe a little bit now.  I see how having no expectations allows me to enjoy the moment more. This applies to movies and life in general.   Angus and Rohini are both coaches. They work with individuals, leaders and organizations to increase performance and success. They also love working with couples and helping them reduce conflict and discord...

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Rebels Unleashed – Dealing with problems in a relationship! A different take!

Maggie G founder of Rebels Unleashed interviews me.   Rohini and I talk about her story, the story of her marriage to be exact, the crisis, the conflict, the misunderstandings and the divorce on the horizon. How did they manage to get over their problems and not only stay together but thrive as a happy couple today? We will be discussing the difference between the conventional approach to solving problems in relationships versus a different approach, a new understanding of where the problems actually come from.   Thank you for watching! Join Rebels Unleashed on Facebook! :-) https://www.facebook.com/rebelsunleas...

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He Said, She Said: Assumptions aren’t Truth

It is easy to make assumptions, but they are often inaccurate -- sometimes in very amusing ways. Angus and I both make wrong assumptions about dogs. Also, I still don't understand Angus' English sense of humor, and take him too seriously even after all these years together.   Angus and Rohini love working with couples and helping them reduce conflict and discord so they can experience more love and harmony in their relationships. They co-facilitate individualized three-day couple's retreats that support the deepening of connection and understanding. We work with couples who are struggling and couples who would like to deepen the love and intimacy...

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He Said, She Said: Annoying Habits

This week’s Vlog is about my annoying habits. Angus talks about some of my habits that he no longer finds annoying because he understands that he feels his thinking and not my behavior. This helped me to get over being stubborn about my behavior. He also fesses up to some OCD quirks of his own.   Angus and Rohini love working with couples and helping them reduce conflict and discord so they can experience more love and harmony in their relationships. They co-facilitate individualized three-day couple's retreats that support the deepening of connection and understanding. We work with couples who are struggling and...

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He Said, She Said: Cultural Differences Don’t Have to Create Drama

Angus accuses Rohini of being a barbarian because of how she holds her fork, and she manages to not stab him with it. That is progress! They discuss how cultural differences are made up, and how it is possible to move beyond them. Love is what matters!   Angus and Rohini love to work with couples and help them reduce conflict and discord so they can experience more love and harmony in their relationships. They co-facilitate individualized three-day couple's retreats that support the deepening of connection and understanding. We work with couples who are struggling and couples who would like to deepen the...

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S2 Womanhood From the Inside-Out with Rohini Ross – Ep6

Hi, I’m Clésia Mendes and welcome to the 2nd Season of Womanhood from the Inside-Out! In this interview series, we’ll be discovering and uncovering the nature of Womanhood from the Inside-Out? Why it's important? When does it show? How can we identify it? And what are the implications of Womanhood from the Inside-Out? You can reach me at https://www.facebook.com/clesia.mendes or http://www.clesiamendes.com/   Today's guest is my dear friend Rohini Ross. Rohini is a psychotherapist, a leadership consultant, a transformative coach and a Huffpost blogger. She facilitates training and personalized programs for individuals, couples, and professionals to help them connect more fully with...

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He Said, She Said: A Simple Life

A very windy Vlog encouraging us all to slow down and take the pressure off ourselves. We can trust in our deeper feelings of love and wisdom to guide us. There is a simplicity in living life this way -- one step at a time -- rather than over complicating things.   Angus and Rohini love to work with couples and help them reduce conflict and discord so they can experience more love and harmony in their relationships. They co-facilitate individualized three-day couple's retreats that support the deepening of connection and understanding. We work with couples who are struggling and couples who would...

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